22 Apr What A Girl Wants
What does a girl want? That is the question. Some have a long list. Some a short one with just some basics. The fundamentals no doubt. There are some deal breakers in life that are a must. It goes on par with self respect and self worth. When you respect yourself you then respect others in return. When you give kindness, love, respect and courtesy you then receive it in return. When you don’t get it in return then it isn’t a reflection on you it is a reflection on the other person. A girl wants to be treated respectfully, with kindness and with compassion from a man. Especially if that is what she is giving. So when she isn’t getting that in return what is that saying? Something is off balance. The situation is less than ideal perhaps. The other person needs to know how you feel and how you deserve to be treated. Sadly some men don’t have a level of courtesy and understanding for a girl. It could be down to his experience and childhood programming or that his previous girlfriends or conquests have allowed them to get away with certain behaviours. Again, all depending on circumstance and prior experience. So what does a girl do when the object of her affection isn’t treating her the way she deserves? The first thing is to focus on herself. Her needs, her happiness, her purpose and her own confidence. Focus on the wonderful things you are grateful of now. The more gratitude you have the more the universe will give you things to be grateful for. It takes the edge off the disappointment and frustration that your flame has given you. Understand that not all of us are the same. Some men just don’t get it. Treat yourself the way you want to be treated. Put yourself first. Be confident in yourself and stand your ground. Put the guy in his place and tell him how you want to be treated. Tell him how you feel. Be strong and stand in your own power. You can never loose what is meant for you so don’t be afraid to express feelings and lay your cards on the table. If your flame values you and wants you, you will know about it. He will show you. Have faith in yourself and to the higher source. See this person as a teacher. You met him for a reason. Understand what it is teaching you. A girl wants to feel good. If he is not making you feel good then that is a clue that he may not be the one for you. Don’t be scared to be alone. Don’t just be with a guy because you are lonely or afraid. You would rather be single and at peace than to be with someone who doesn’t treat you right. A girl wants to enjoy. To be playful. To laugh and to be able to cry. To be able to be in a safe environment to be vulnerable and not be afraid. A man need to be careful with her heart and to nurture her as a whole. As a soul, as a strong woman, as a tender heart as a sacred being. That is respect. Sometimes a man needs to loose a woman in order to appreciate fully what she is and what she brings to him. Maybe distance is the answer. Is it want a girl wants? Maybe not. Maybe it is what she needs. A girls wants to feel alive and to ride like the wind. To be grounded yet free. To love and to be loved in return.