05 Nov Ladies…..Bet On Yourself Every Time
In a world of excess, wanting things here and now and and materialism it is easy to get caught up in the things that in the end really don’t matter. We all enjoy the nice things in life and as humans we all have that inner craving for comfort, touching and feeling of love from someone. Sometimes wanting someone to be a certain way or wanting someone to behave a certain way with us can cause frustration and disappointment. When we want something from someone and we don’t get it, it usually brings up particular feelings in us. When someone breaks a promise or doesn’t deliver on their word this can also bring a mixture of negative emotions to the surface. As we have probably read many time is that you cant control external things that happen and you cant control what people do or say. We can only control ourselves. Only you know how you feel. So it is important to not allow circumstance to control you. It takes a disciplined mentality but with practice the most seemingly difficult things can be dealt with in a better way. The main thing is to bet on yourself every time. You are the most important thing in your life. When a man does a certain behavior for instance or lets you down or doesn’t show up in the way you want him to the main thing is to remember is to focus on you and your direction, your life, what is already in your life that has shown up and all the great things that are coming. By knowing your worth and the things that are important to you this takes the focus on what has occurred, the emotions, the hurt, the disappointment etc. Even if you feel those things it is important that you don’t take them with you for a prolonged period. This is when you let circumstance control you rather than the other way around. Put yourself first. By you betting on you, you allow yourself a sense of freedom , happiness and acceptance. Acceptance that whatever situation is meant to play out in your life it will. The universe knows what it is doing even if we don’t like it at the time or understand it. People are people and you cant try and control or make something or someone happen. All you can do is take care of you. Stop waiting for that phone call, stop waiting for that special someone to come to the door. Stop waiting for things. Just live. What shows up is what is meant to show up. Just be open and embracing of it all. The most important thing is that you are ok with you. Be aware of how you are taking in certain things. Be at one with you. When you put yourself first and you have an inner feeling that regardless of who and what happens you are ok. Bet on yourself. You will always win.