09 Aug When You Are Your Unique Self.
What does it mean to be yourself really? Are you really being who you want to be or are you what others want you to be? Is there a public you and a personal you that only a few really get to see. Its funny the way it all appears to be. See, a lot of the time people wear a mask. They use it all the time and only allow certain people or certain circumstances in. Some are afraid that if they behave or show people what they are like that no one will like them or accept them for what they really are. So in essence its compromising one’s true self. But wouldn’t you just want to be who you are and be what you want to be. Those who are with you and love and support you will be beside you. The right people move towards you. But if you aren’t your true self and you have been what those out there want you to be then your not living your life as you really divinely should.
We have all heard the expression ‘Its all smoke and mirrors’. That can be so very true for many. Sometimes we don’t even realise it. Its like a lot of people need to be seen to look good out there. The perfect house, the car, the top job. Status and perception are important. But why? Is it because we don’t like what we see when all is said and done? Are we not worthy or good enough just as we are? Does one feel compelled to keep up with the Jones? When you have self worth and self love you don’t care so much to compete with others. You are living your journey, your passion, your drive and taking care of your life rather than thinking someone is better or wiser or richer or prettier than you. Everyone has a story and everyone is making something of their life. Some keep the mask on because they are afraid. Afraid of rejection, not being good enough or not worthy enough. Authenticity in life so important. If you cant be your real self then how are you supposed to attract the right circumstances with the right person. The right people, the right relationship, the right job the right friends. Remember that like attracts like. So be your unique self. We all grow and learn on this journey of life. Who wants to be something they are really not? Be your true self. They is nothing more liberating and wonderful than being yourself. As long as you are true to you that is all that matters.