Like A Fine Wine…Do We Get Better?

Like A Fine Wine…Do We Get Better?

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As the saying goes like a fine wine you get better with age. But do we really? Now more than ever it seems we are looking after ourselves. We are physically active, we are inundated with new anti wrinkle serums and creams to smooth our lines, and we, as women, are more savvy and aware of looking after our skin, our bodies and emotional well being. We are told to take time to smell the roses and take time out when our bodies tell us rather than run on empty like we do. Maybe we are getting wiser as we get older. with age comes experience, growth as we take the learning from what life gives us. When it comes to dating however do we really get wiser as we go along? It feels sometimes we are on autopilot. We seem to make the same mistake or date the same kinda person. Why does history sometimes repeat itself? You know you should know better but you go and do it anyway. Maybe we all need a certain amount of practise before we get it right. We do get better with age but every now a then we fall when it comes to matters of the heart. We forget logic and reason and fall. Fall in love then fall flat on our face. Usually in an emotional pit. Like wine, love can ignite our senses just a quick and easily as it can give you one massive hangover that takes a while to get over. Maybe like a fine wine we need to choose carefully and wisely. You want a good drop. So with a choice of many you have to sip a few bottles before you fine the right one for you. It takes time. With experience, wisdom and time you learn to pick a good drop from the not so good ones. Every now and then you pick a not so great one. Its ok. Think of dating like a bottle shop. There is many to choose from. Even as you age and get better, like a fine wine, you may get better at picking them. Even if you do get a bad bottle that doesn’t suit, keep going. You learn, you experience and you evolve. As a good grape does. You get to know what you like and not. Eventually the right wine will come your way and you know you have found a winner. Now that in itself is an audacious victory. Merlot anyone?……

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