22 Mar Sliding Doors…Do you open it or does he?
A dear friend of mine, lets call him Maverick, said something interesting to me a little while ago. Now Maverick has had his fair share of women so it was interesting to me when one day we were chatting about dating, relationships etc he said to me that when it came to conquests that there was a difference. There are women he would leave the door open for and there are women he will open the door for. That stopped me cold. ” Really? how so?” i asked. I hated to admit it but i kinda knew what he was on about. He catagorised women into two areas. The ones he knew he could sleep with without hesitation he would leave the door open for. Easy, simple. No fuss. Then there were women in which he showed genuine interest and not just for sleeping with. Ones who he saw as respectful, strong and werent in it for cheap thrills. Had something to offer and wanted to get to know. He would open the door for them. He said that this was the generalization thinking of a man. Women who you leave the door open for they are most likely not going to keep. A man fishes to eat so you are either a keeper or a throwback. Does he open the door for you or does he leave the door open? Needless to say it was a very interesting conversation during coffee break. But made me think. An insightful way of seeing things for this point of you. Thank you Maverick.