10 Oct Mixed Messages
One thing girls love to hate about guys. When they don’t say what they mean and mean what they say. When actions don’t mimick the words. How long do we stay in limbo? Especially if you have feelings for him. How do we catch it early one so we do get strung along? How to not get caught up in cloudy doubt, lust/love and be true enough to ourselves? Its not always easy and clear to us, especially at first. We can also find ourselves making excuses for them. Oh he is on his way, he is always late, oh he is complacent that way…, its ok, next time. Or if they take longer that it should to reply back. It gets to the point that its just not good enough.
Be strong, be bold and know that you are better than that. When you know your worth and you are confident then you have the courage to stand your ground talk about it with your guy so he knows where you stand, how you feel and what you want. It’s a great feeling when you are true to yourself. It can be uncomfortable and uneasy but you will get the answers you want and regardless of outcome , if he stays or if he goes. You will be better for it as living in limbo is far worse in the end than having the truth.